Of course my name is not Jacob Wayne. However, Wayne Schwandt and his wife at the time, Ann Schwandt, remained friends with my parents and even visited us in Germany in the early '80s.
When I was telling my dad a few weeks ago that I was going to a wedding in Bellingham, Washington, he brought up my almost-namesake and remembered that Wayne Schwandt once lived in Bellingham, Washington, he even made it big, got himself elected to the City's Development Council or some such thing.
Anyway, that's neither here nor there. I was in Bellingham over the weekend for my good friend Mike's wedding. His bride and her family are from Bellingham and I must say, it is a really nice little town. Very pretty. Especially when the rain stops and the sun comes out.
The wedding was lovely. The ceremony, although a bit long, was very enjoyable and entertaining. After the ceremony the bridal party (of which I was a member) went around Bellingham and found really beautiful locations to take photos. One such location was an old run-down Boilermaker's building. The bride used to work for the Boilermaker's Union. That's how she met my friend Mike during the 2008 presidential campaign. The building was really neat, old wood, rusty siding, big metal doors in a green that matched our dresses perfectly. And, even though it was supposed to storm and rain all day long, the sun came out for the pictures and it was simply beautiful.
The reception was at the Ferry Terminal. It's a fairly standard ferry terminal but there is a room upstairs with windows overlooking the water and the view of the sun setting was breath taking.
When I walked into the reception area, I stopped to get my name card of the name card table and the ends of my pashmina caught a line of name cards and, like dominoes, a whole row of name cards fell flat. Oops! I hurried to pick them all up and put them back in order.
As I was setting down name cards, I saw that I held in my hand name cards for "Wayne Schwandt" and "Ann Schwandt" and I thought, "impossible!"
So I finished putting all the toppled name cards back in place and went to find the bride's father, Dean. Dean and I hit it off immediately when I had arrived the day before. He's a retired federal judge and was delighted to meet the "lawyer that Mike lived with" who drove all the way from Oakland. (He also kept taking pictures of me saying, "give me that smile again!") So, I said to Dean, "Dean, tell me about Wayne Schwandt."
He as a little perplexed but humored me, giving me Wayne's basic resume: served on the City's Economic Development Council, elected to several public positions, long time friend of the family, the bride went to school with Wayne's daughter. I asked if he was from Oregon. Yes, indeed. Then, as I was about to explain, Dean turned around and gestured to the man coming up the stairs saying, "Wayne, I'd like to introduce you to Katy McKenzie" not knowing exactly why he was doing it.
Wayne had a quizzical look on his face and so I said, "Kirk McKenzie's daughter" and his face lit up in a mixture of shock, surprise, and elation. "Holy Cow!"
Anyway, the rest of the evening was a blast. I got reacquainted with Wayne, met his new wife, also got to spend some time with Ann and their daughter Mullane. Mullane told me that just last week she had found the journal she kept before their trip to visit us in Germany when her mother made her learn a new German word every day.
The bride, by the way, was very confused as to why I was hugging and talking to her best friend from high school and also that friend's parents. When we all explained there were laughs all around. All of my table mates at the reception were old friends from Columbus and when they heard the story, they did two things: 1. They all agreed "Leave it to Katy McKenzie to know someone at a wedding in Bellingham, Washington!" and 2. they all called me Wayne for the rest of the night.
And fun was had by all.
Pictures of me and Wayne and me and Ann & Mullane.












